If a man wants you, nothing can
keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not
meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you
truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't
mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even
if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a
two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing
cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE,
another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A
HINT..............
All in all woman of God.
I have learned some of this to be true.
Although it brings life to us when we read it. The true way
to know if a man wants you is to measure him, by the word of God.
If we get him in the world, we have to wait for the Lord to get
the world out of him. If you have been sho nuff saved and set
free. You will not lust after that which the Lord has told you to
stay way from. If you are yoking up with worldly men. There is
still some residue on you that is drawing them. You do not see it,
so ask the Lord to cover you until your Husband comes.
I finally realized
after being single and celibate for over 8 years, that there was
still residue in me. I hid myself for years, until an incident caused
me to reveal myself.
From there the cycle of pain started all over
again. Woman of God, hurt people; hurt people.
Stop! Look and Listen to the
word of God.
Know that He wants you emotionally whole. You can not give to a
man all of you and expect him to know what to do with it, unless
he is your husband and is walking with the Lord.
You will run in circles, only to find that he is not complete and
neither are you.
Allow the Lord to finish His
process in you, and when your season comes.
You will get married. Your Boaz, will come.
Until then, do not uncover yourself to any man. Stay out of their
face, stay away and send a man to minister to them if they really
want a word unless you are in church and covered by your pastor.
BE BLESSED, BE ON ALERT, AND
BE STEADFAST AND UNMOVABLE.
Your
sister in Christ,
Mz. Jones
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